When it comes to dating and life in general, do you struggle with the concept of not being liked? Do you ever wonder why, when you treat women well, do lots of things to look after women and say yes to everything, that you constantly seem to lose out in love to bad guys? Do you consider yourself a ‘Nice Guy’?
The Nice guy way: Nice guys are always wondering why women go for the bad boys. I mean, surely a woman wants a guy who will go out of his way to show her that she is number one? She must want a guy who will put her on a pedestal, showing her daily how much he loves her, and keeping her constantly in the communication loop?
Why would she not Love a guy who constantly goes above and beyond for her, who puts her needs first and his second? Why wouldn’t she want to spend her life with a guy who respects her and treats her like a lady?
If you’ve personally thought all of these things, then I have news for you… A nice guy in a relationship usually ends up being Beta to his woman’s Alpha; he is apologetic and can be passive aggressive. He is not direct with his speech or eye contact and often won’t speak up, for fear of losing her. This leads to resentment and being a general needy wet blanket, who has forgotten where he put his true personality.
The truth is when you attempt to make a woman feel that she is your world, you completely remove any idea that you’re a bit of a challenge for her, or that there is any mystery about you; both of these things are attractive to women. What’s more, putting a woman in a place where she is everything denies guys of their true calling in life; to have a true and unique purpose that ignites a fire inside them each and every day. A purpose that makes them wake every morning excited to be the best they can be in their chosen field and to be an asset not only to themselves but everyone around them too.
If you’ve found yourself acting like this in relationships, then this course and coaching package is for you. When a lot of guys realise that they have more than a hint of the nice guy, they make a mistake and go too far the other way, morphing into a bad boy type and trying to be edgy. The problem is unless you really know what a woman wants, you’ll likely fall flat and make all the wrong moves too.
Women love an independent guy with a strong sense of purpose, strong morals and healthy boundaries. It’s OK to be a gentleman, have good manners and have some traditional values, but you need to be comfortable in your own skin and not put a new love interest as a higher priority than the rest of your life; she has to earn your love, respect and attention. The Good Guy is busy and focused on his goals; he also knows that being constantly available lowers his value with women; a little scarcity is necessary for her to miss him and in turn crave more contact.
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